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help you lean into your #1 relationship

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It's time to level-up
your #1 relationship

Anybody who has ever been in a long-term relationship knows how easy it is to let life’s many distractions take precedence, even though you know that the success and fulfillment that comes from investing in your marriage will spill over into every other area of your life.

It’s time to recommit to each other and create a strong, life-giving relationship with your spouse.

Kickass Couples Nation will show you how.

Infuse your marriage with life

If you’re like most American couples, you probably went through a “honeymoon phase,” but now your relationship is feeling a little stagnant. 

Maybe you fight often, or perhaps you stay civil but the “spark” just isn’t quite as radiant as it used to be. (Or, maybe you’re still in the honeymoon phase and want to ensure that flame keeps burning; that’s great!)

You want to strengthen your relationship, but you’re not sure how. It’s not like marriage comes with a manual. If only you had…

  • Foolproof techniques and strategies to reconnect with your spouse. 
  • Expert guidance and some way to keep yourself accountable and investing in each other regularly.
  • A community of other kickass couples to learn from and connect with.

Key Features of
Kickass Couples Nation

Kickass Couples Nation is designed to encourage you and your spouse to lean in to your relationship and “turn toward” each other on a regular basis. Here’s how:

Monthly Keynote

During the monthly keynote presentation, you’ll get to hear from a relationship expert on topics like commitment, communication, and conflict resolution.

Workshops with Licensed Marriage Therapists

Our two resident marriage therapists host a monthly discussion on one of the 13 Pillars and provide you with action items to work on.

Monthly 3 C’s Hot-Seat Training

Each month, a couple or individual in the Kickass Couples Nation has the opportunity to gain feedback and spark insight on how they can improve the 3Cs in their lives.

Private Facebook Group

“You are who you hang out with,” and in our private Facebook group, that is a blessing! Find solidarity and inspiration when you connect with other kickass couples.

Exclusive Podcast Content

Enjoy regular interviews from the Kickass Couples Podcast, as well as exclusive content reserved especially for members of Kickass Nation.

Access to All Recorded Content

Past keynotes, therapist discussions, action items, hotseats, and articles are all yours to return to time and time again, any time your relationship needs a boost.
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Nation and discover...

Greater Fulfillment

No more resentment, no more tension, no more unfair fighting, meaning both of you will feel much more satisfied, content, and at home in your marriage.

Increased Intimacy

Sure, your sex life will be better, but more than that, you will experience a closeness with your spouse in even the everyday moments.

Unsurpassed Happiness

When your #1 relationship is thriving, other areas thrive too, and you will both soon find yourselves happier than you’ve been in a long time.

Levels of Commitment

"Just the Freebies, Please"

Get a steady stream of relationship inspiration sent directly to your inbox when you subscribe to the the kickass community for free. 

You’ll receive:

  • Kickass Quotient Assessment
  • Weekly blog articles and podcast episodes

It’s a great way to start shifting your mindset on what it means to be a Kickass Couple!

Retail Value: $100
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"Testing the Waters"

With this lower tiered membership, you will receive access to:

  • Kickass Quotient Assessment
  • All current recorded content
  • Weekly blog articles and podcast episodes
  • Private Facebook group

While not as interactive as the full package, this gives you an opportunity to see some of our content and start working on your relationship with a small monetary investment.

Retail Value: $500
Get it for only $50/mo!


"We're All In!"

Our full membership holds nothing back! You’ll receive access to:

  • Kickass Quotient Assessment
  • Monthly hotseats
  • Monthly keynote presentations
  • Monthly therapist discussions
  • Monthly action items
  • Weekly blog articles and podcast episodes
  • Exclusive podcast content
  • Private Facebook group
  • All recorded content

It’s the perfect membership for couples who are ready and willing to fully invest in their relationship!

Retail Value: $1,000
Get 2 logins for only $100/mo!


Growth can be intimidating...

…and change can be scary, especially when it involves something as sacred as your marriage.

That’s why it’s so important to seek expert guidance, give yourself the proper tools and strategies, and surround yourselves with a support system like Kickass Couples Nation.

It might sound hard right now, and you might be tempted to simply accept the current state of things, but we want to let you in on a secret: 

short-term hard = long-term easy
short-term easy = long-term hard

Today, we challenge you to lean into your marriage, turn toward your spouse, and seek a deeper sense of commitment and connection.

We promise, it will be worth it.

“Where do I start?”
“Do I have what it takes?”
“What if my spouse isn’t committed?”


Many people starting out on this journey share these concerns, and we want you to know you are not alone.

Kickass Couples Nation teaches you how to start building a strong foundation using our 3Cs: Commitment, Communication, and Conflict Resolution. All it takes is a willingness to embrace your imperfections and take steps to becoming better.

However, we want you to understand that change starts from within, and this process is not about “fixing” someone else. Rather, it is about owning your own strengths and weaknesses, and learning to magnify the good in someone you love through consistent, supportive, and non-judgemental efforts.

My heartfelt wish is for every couple to create the same type of kickass relationship that my wife and I have. Let us show you the way.

Meet Matthew

Matthew P. Hoffman is a national speaker and author of Kickass Husband: Winning at Life,

Marriage & Sex. As the founder and co-developer of Kickass Quotient, the Kickass Couples Podcast, and his live event series, he thrives on teaching spouses how to develop their #1 relationship. 

His wife, Kimberly, is the first to vouch that he is, indeed, a kickass husband who leads men from selfishness and unfulfillment to satisfaction and love in their marriages.

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