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Connecting on a Deeper Level: Tips for Building Intimacy with Your Partner

By April 19, 2023No Comments

Hey there, everyone! Kimberly and Matthew Hoffman here, and today we want to talk about how to connect with your partner and build mutual respect.  We were inspired by our recent podcast with David and Julie Bulitt as they discussed how they have built a strong and supportive relationship over their 36 years of marriage. We’re going to sharesome great lessons to be learned from their experience.

One of the key pillars of their relationship is teamwork. Julie and David work together to navigate all the challenges of life, from financial and communication issues to parenting struggles. And they do it all with humor and a sense of partnership, which helps them stay connected and supportive of each other.

Another important factor in their relationship is mutual respect. They both come from families where love was expressed differently, but they have found a way to appreciate and honor each other’s unique ways of expressing affection. This has allowed them to build a strong foundation of respect and trust which is essential for any healthy relationship.

How can you apply these pillars of a strong relationship to your own life? Here are some tips we think just might help:

  1. Communicate openly and honestly. Be willing to have difficult conversations and listen to your partner’s perspective with an open mind.
  2. Develop a sense of teamwork. Support each other through the ups and downs of life, and work together to navigate each partner’s challenges no matter what season either of you may be in.
  3. Show mutual respect. Appreciate and honor each other’s unique strengths and ways of expressing love, and don’t take each other for granted by only being a taker of your partner’s goodness. Work to fill them to overflow with unconditional love, gratitude and recognition for all of the good you experience them doing.
  4. Find ways to stay connected. Whether it’s through date nights, shared hobbies, or simply taking the time to engage in sharing your hopes and dreams, find fun ways to stay connected and engaged with your partner in activities familiar and new!

We hope these tips help you build a strong and supportive relationship with your partner. Remember, relationships take work, but the rewards of a happy and fulfilling partnership are more than worth it. Thanks for tuning in to the Kickass Couples blog.

Until next time. Remember, happily ever after doesn’t just happen. It’s on purpose.