Kickass Culture

Bring in Matthew to inspire your audience with the how and why of building their most important relationships

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Meet Matthew P. Hoffman

Matthew P. Hoffman is a national speaker and author of Kickass Husband: Winning at Life, Marriage & Sex. As the founder and co-developer of Kickass Quotient, the Kickass Couples Podcast, and his live event series, he thrives on teaching spouses how to develop their #1 relationship. 

His wife, Kimberly, is the first to vouch that he is, indeed, a kickass husband who leads men from selfishness and unfulfillment to satisfaction and love in their marriages.

Matthew only accepts 12 speaking engagements each year. Extend an invite here.

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Speaking Program: Kickass Couples

Using the 3Cs to fortify your relationship

In Matthew’s keynote presentation, he shares the 3 foundational pillars of thriving relationships and explains how relationship success leads to success in all other areas of one’s life. 

Anybody who has ever been in a long-term relationship knows how easy it is to let life’s many distractions take precedence.

Matthew’s keynote presentation on the 3Cs reminds us how important (and life-giving) it is to invest in our most important relationships, with a focus on 3 key areas:

  • Commitment
  • Communication
  • Conflict Resolution  

Audience members will leave with a newfound hope and actionable steps for taking their relationships to the next level.

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Audience members will be nodding their head in solidarity as Matthew shares trials and triumphs from his own journey of becoming a (wife-proclaimed) kickass husband.


Matthew knows firsthand that every relationship has its ups and downs, and welcomes the fact that none of us are perfect. Indeed, he teaches that a key to becoming kickass in life is embracing these imperfections and growing from them.


Though the subject matter can be serious at times, Matthew’s presentations are anything but boring! He keeps his audience engaged and excited about creating their own success story.


Matthew helps audience members self-reflect and look at their critical relationships through fresh eyes. With this introspection and insight, attendees will have a newfound enthusiasm for achieving their own success by pouring into others.

Universally Acceptable

Whether attendees are struggling with declining relationships that need a major overhaul or enjoy thriving relationships they want to make even stronger, the principles Matthew teaches are strategic, data-driven, and can be applied time and time again.

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"Finding Success in Another's Well-being"

While the focus is on helping others create incredible success and fulfillment in their relationship with their spouse, the principles Matthew teaches stem from a universal truth: The highest good for you is also the highest good for me. Thus, when we try to help someone else succeed (whether it’s our spouse, our colleague, or our child), we, too, become more successful. 

In everything Matthew does, he tries to embody this cornerstone of servant leadership. Because, when you create from a place of genuine investment in others, the results you get are exponentially better than when you solely act out of self-interest.

Imagine how your finances, health, and overall happiness could improve when you do everything you can to make your spouse feel supported and fulfilled! Imagine how wildly successful your company would be if you empowered every employee to create a thriving relationship with their partner!

Let’s create kickass couples (and a kickass culture) together.

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