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Change Starts with Awareness
You know your relationship could use an upgrade, but where to start?
First, you have to honestly assess where you stand. For that, we’ve created the Kickass Quotient. It’s an assessment on the 14 relationship pillars (including the 3Cs, of course) that shows you your strengths, as well as where there’s room for improvement.
Take the first step to strengthening your relationship and find out your own Kickass Quotient today.
Love Isn't Perfect
…although when you first start out in a relationship, it usually feels that way.
https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/
But add a growing family, changing careers, and community and social commitments to the mix and before long, most couples fade from that flow state of being to a more mundane, mediocre, or even miserable status quo.
Love Isn't Perfect
…although when you first start out in a relationship, it usually feels that way.
https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/
But add a growing family, changing careers, and community and social commitments to the mix and before long, most couples fade from that flow state of being to a more mundane, mediocre, or even miserable status quo.
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And even though you want to rebuild a strong relationship
And even though you want to rebuild a strong relationship
✔ You don’t know what steps to take
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What happens when you invest in your #1 relationship?

Enhanced Intimacy
By improving your communication and commitment to each other, you’ll experience a closeness you didn’t know was possible, both in the bedroom and out!

Greater Happiness
Replace habitual tension and unfair fighting with effective conflict resolution, which leads to less relationship stress (and improved overall happiness) for you both.

Success Spillover
When your relationship with your partner is supportive, it becomes the unlimited, bottomless fountain that supplies water to all areas of your life.
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By starting with the “3Cs,” you create a solid foundation—which you can then build upon as you explore the other 14 pillars of successful relationships.
We show you how. Take our Kickass Assessment© to see where you’re starting from.


It all starts with a strong foundation
Humans, like love, are imperfect: We all make mistakes, and that’s okay! The key is embracing those imperfections and courageously yearning for (and learning to create) something better.
With that mindset, you can begin to reforge your relationship by focusing on these 3 cornerstones:
- Commitment
- Communication
- Conflict Resolution

It all starts with a strong foundation
Humans, like love, are imperfect: We all make mistakes, and that’s okay! The key is embracing those imperfections and courageously yearning for (and learning to create) something better.
With that mindset, you can begin to reforge your relationship by focusing on these 3 cornerstones:
- Commitment
- Communication
- Conflict Resolution
Take The Assessment
By starting with the “3Cs,” you create a solid foundation—which you can then build upon as you explore the other 14 pillars of successful relationships.
We show you how. Take our Kickass Assessment© to see where you’re starting from.

3 ways to take your relationship from second-class to kick-ass!
Free Assessment
Change Starts with Awareness
You know your relationship could use an upgrade, but where to start?
First, you have to honestly assess where you stand. For that, we’ve created the Kickass Quotient. It’s an assessment on the 14 relationship pillars (including the 3Cs, of course) that shows you your strengths, as well as where there’s room for improvement.
Take the first step to strengthening your relationship and find out your own Kickass Quotient today.
Meet Matthew
Matthew P. Hoffman is a national speaker and author of Kickass Husband: Winning at Life, Marriage & Sex.
As the founder and co-developer of the Kickass Quotient, the Kickass Couples Podcast, and his live event series, he thrives on teaching spouses how to develop their #1 relationship.
His wife, Kimberly, is the first to vouch that he is, indeed, a kickass husband who leads men from selfishness and unfulfillment to satisfaction and love in their marriages.
Meet Matthew
Matthew P. Hoffman is a national speaker and author of Kickass Husband: Winning at Life, Marriage & Sex.
As the founder and co-developer of the Kickass Quotient, the Kickass Couples Podcast, and his live event series, he thrives on teaching spouses how to develop their #1 relationship.
His wife, Kimberly, is the first to vouch that he is, indeed, a kickass husband who leads men from selfishness and unfulfillment to satisfaction and love in their marriages.