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Love Isn't Perfect

…although when you first start out in a relationship, it usually feels that way.

But add a growing family, changing careers, and community and social commitments to the mix and before long, most couples fade from that flow state of being to a more mundane, mediocre, or even miserable status quo.


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And even though you want to rebuild a strong relationship

And even though you want to rebuild a strong relationship

✔ You don’t know what steps to take

✔ You’re not sure how to get on the same page with your spouse
✔ You’re afraid of making things worse
✔ You question your ability to create lasting positive change
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It all starts with a strong foundation

Humans, like love, are imperfect: We all make mistakes, and that’s okay! The key is embracing those imperfections and courageously yearning for (and learning to create) something better.

With that mindset, you can begin to reforge your relationship by focusing on these 3 cornerstones:

  • Commitment
  • Communication
  • Conflict Resolution

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By starting with the “3Cs,” you create a solid foundation—which you can then build upon as you explore the other 14 pillars of successful relationships.

We show you how. Take our Kickass Assessment© to see where you’re starting from.

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What happens when you invest in your #1 relationship?

Enhanced Intimacy

By improving your communication and commitment to each other, you’ll experience a closeness you didn’t know was possible, both in the bedroom and out!

Greater Happiness

Replace habitual tension and unfair fighting with effective conflict resolution, which leads to less relationship stress (and improved overall happiness) for you both.

Success Spillover

When your relationship with your partner is supportive, it becomes the unlimited, bottomless fountain that supplies water to all areas of your life.

3 ways to take your relationship from second-class to kick-ass!

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Listen in as Matthew and Kimberly Hoffman interview thriving couples from different industries and backgrounds.

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Immerse yourself in a community of couples going through challenges but wanting to level-up, just like you.

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Kickass Husband: Winning at Life, Marriage & Sex is a fast, easy read that gives you practical tools for turning toward your partner and leaning in to your marriage.

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Change Starts with Awareness

You know your relationship could use an upgrade, but where to start?

First, you have to honestly assess where you stand. For that, we’ve created the Kickass Quotient. It’s an assessment on the 14 relationship pillars (including the 3Cs, of course) that shows you your strengths, as well as where there’s room for improvement. 

Take the first step to strengthening your relationship and find out your own Kickass Quotient today.

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Meet Matthew

Matthew P. Hoffman is a national speaker and author of Kickass Husband: Winning at Life, Marriage & Sex.

As the founder and co-developer of the Kickass Quotient, the Kickass Couples Podcast, and his live event series, he thrives on teaching spouses how to develop their #1 relationship. 

His wife, Kimberly, is the first to vouch that he is, indeed, a kickass husband who leads men from selfishness and unfulfillment to satisfaction and love in their marriages.

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