Winning at Life, Marriage, and Sex

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You CAN level-up your marriage.
Kickass Husband shows you exactly how to do it.

Remember when your relationship just worked...?

There was once a time when your relationship was thriving, exciting… where it gave you more than it took, where it felt easy and simple. But after that honeymoon phase, it’s all too easy to fall into the slow fade to complacency, apathy, and just “getting by.”

Deep down, you know life is too short to not love the one you’re with; too short not to be in a relationship that’s positive, affirming, and fun. But searching for the how-to is exhausting and frustrating, and it can leave you worried you’re going to miss the target or screw everything up.

If only marriage came with a manual…

The Guidebook You've Been Looking For

Kickass Husband is exactly that: a handbook for imperfect husbands who want to invest in and fortify their #1 relationship. 

Each chapter is relatable, succinct, and easily digestible, giving you tactics you can immediately begin using in your own relationship.

With anecdotes from Matthew’s marriage, as well as analyses from  Certified Gottman Marriage Therapist Chris Cambas, you’ll be equipped with the tools, strategies, and real-life examples you need to lean in to your #1 relationship and take it from floundering to flourishing.

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Apply the lessons in Kickass Husband to feel...


Rediscover a sense of hope and excitement as you begin cultivating the incredible relationship you’ve always dreamed of.


Actively invest in your marriage and give you and your spouse the gift of increased satisfaction, intimacy, and fulfillment.


Watch your relationship success spill over into your health, finances, and business, and grow your overall happiness in every area of life.


Everything you need to focus on your #1 relationship

Here’s the great news: for a limited time, when you pre-purchase the book you will receive:

Physical copy of Kickass Husband as soon as it’s available

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Love Note Postcards

$20 value

Kickass Quotient Assessment for Men & Women

$10 value

Book Club Discussion Points with Digital Download Workbook

$10 value

The 3Cs for Kickass Couples Digital Video Download

$50 value

Golden Ticket for Book Live Launch Celebration Party

$25 value

Sale Price:

It’s a $153 value for only $30!

For a bit of time, energy, and less money than the cost of dinner, and you could start turning your marriage around. Isn’t it a no-brainer?

What is your marriage worth?

Do you remember the best, most fulfilling year of your marriage? What if that was every year? What benefits would a healthy, thriving relationship bring to your career and other relationships?

The way I see it, you have 3 choices:

    1. Go back to “maintaining” your relationship (sure, you might avoid fighting, but you and your partner will never quite thrive the way you deserve to).
    2. Continue on a downhill spiral until you and your spouse eventually separate.
    3. Actively work on creating the type of relationship you desire.

It is impossible to put a price tag on happiness and fulfillment, but every one of us deserves it and can experience it now.

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You can rebuild your relationship on your own...but you don't have to

Yes, you can assimilate all of this information from dozens of different relationship books. You can try to find a common language with your spouse, and constantly struggle to be on the same page. You can go through countless hours of counseling (and some might actually be needed).

Or, you can use the detailed, consistent framework in Kickass Husband to help you both navigate the journey of strengthening your relationship.

You don’t need to reinvent the wheel. Give yourself the tools and tactics you need to level-up, together.

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Meet the Authors

Matthew P. Hoffman

Matthew is a national speaker and author of Kickass Husband: Winning at Life,
Marriage & Sex. As the founder of Kickass Quotient, the Kickass Couples Podcast, and his live event series, he thrives on teaching spouses how to develop their #1 relationship.

His wife, Kimberly, is the first to vouch that he is, indeed, a kickass husband who leads men from selfishness and unfulfillment to satisfaction and love in their marriages.

Co-Author, Chris Cambas

Chris is a Gottman Certified Licensed Marriage Therapist with a passion for helping others succeed in their #1 relationship. For over 25 years he has been helping couples and individuals overcome the obstacles that stand in the way of their happiness.

Chris has also worked with thousands of therapists to strengthen their practices though ongoing education and training, keeping them prep